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Hey first things first this is really great advise thankyou.

Soo my girlfriend and i were going out for 6 months, shes like the best girlfriend ive had, shes everything i could wish for, she ticks all my boxes, but we would have petty arguments over nothing really, but i like to be independent and have space, and long story short she kept saying that she doesnt feel that i love her or care about her any more and well i did say some silly things, sarcastic things when i had a bad day, i know this is wrong and ohh boy im paying for it, she finished me yesterday over msn, she says she tryed really hard and stuff and that she just doesnt feel happy in a relationship with me, i mean i couldnt believe it, that this was the girl saying a couple months before that i was the one and that she would never ever leave me, last night ive asked her to give me and us another go and she just isnt having non of it, shes talking to me but wont get back wirh me, what do i do? Thanks x

Posted September 21, 2009

Hello, I’ll fill you in with the details…. my girlfriend and I split up about a month ago, I’ve been looking for a new house but not having much look. we’re not living together now but we where for a while, she was comfortable with it and i didnt mind. she says there is no chance of use getting back together, although we went out had a nice meal and a few bottles of wine and she totally changed, was all over me telling me how she missed me and if we tried again we need to take it very slow and not talk about the future. we went to a friends party the next day and she was the same, constantly kissing me. i stayed with her the next week but admit i was a little too pushy and taked about us to much. she then changed her mind on our situation and is now saying the other nights where a mistake and she knows what she wants now and its not me! she says she stil wants me as a friend, and i know she has met another guy! please please help! thanks

Posted September 06, 2009

hi
my girlfriend of 2 years told me back in april she was visiting a sick aunt halfway across the country and would be back in 2 weeks, well 2 weeks came and went and she told me she is not sure when shes coming back she could die any day and she wanted to be there, any way she broke down and told me june 3 that she got married and is not coming back to someone in the army on may 22, meanwhile she still texts and calls me every day and says she loves me and i still love her very much even after everything she did and i would love to have her back with me, we were fine up untill the day before her flight no fights or anything. anyways she is coming back to the area in oct for 2 weeks once he gets deployed and says she really wants to visit with me and loves and misses me very much this and that . my question is how do i go about winning her back for good and how to act when i see her after 6 months of her being gone i want to make her very happy when we are together in oct
thanks

Posted August 25, 2009

in reply to Wrecker06 It’s always hard when kids are involved, especially ones who are so young – they seem to forge a relationship a lot faster than you would have thought possible. If she has been in a long term relationship for 7 years, she has probably forgotten what the outside world looks like – the last thing you want is a rebound relationship.

Give a her a little time to find her feet again and have some good times with her friends. If you push her she will feel suffocated and if you tell her how the children feel it will sound like emotional blackmail.

You don’t want to rush her but you DO need to stay close. I don’t want to sound like I’m repeating myself but T Dub would be the best guy to help you with this one – In fact, I think there may even be a testimonial on his website which is very similar to your story (unless he refreshed them) – http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up

Let me know if this helps and as always, let me know how it works out

Reply Posted August 20, 2009

in reply to dooger3 Firstly, Sorry for the late reply, I have been on vacation and didn’t have any internet access…

Secondly, No! this doesn’t mean the end at all. Have a think about any big changes which occurred in the relationship – I always find it hard to understand when a woman says that she loves you and then a few weeks or months later she says that you are someone whom I can’t love (or words along this line).

Again, I would have no doubt that my friend T Dub could help you a lot better than I could. Take a look at – http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up

Let me know how things turn out

Best of luck

Reply Posted August 20, 2009

Ok so im not sure what i should do the girl i have been dating ended her engagment with her ex back june 1st we have been together since june 16th all has been great ive sent her flowers twice wrote three poems to her massged her everytime we were together …she has told me that shes never been treated this way ever!!!!…i also use to send her a text at the beg and end of the day hoping she had a great day and how her day was..she said she loved tha….im a totally honest guy and wouldndnt even think about cheating on her we have had a wonderful month together but recently she said she didnt want a relationship she just wants to date and go out and have fun with all her friends since shes been in long term rel. for the last 7yrs…her and my to daughters ages 5 and 3 have clicked so perfectly they all love each other both of my girls ask about her everyday to see her…they even cry everynite for her…..what should i do walk away from this or should i wait till she ready for a rel?

Reply Posted August 02, 2009

My fiancee and I recently broke up in April, We had arguments about changing, I wasn’t ready to though I’m changing naturally, growing up. I think its gd ur bein honest with yourself, 1stt step 2 change is in seeing what’s wrong. Pls don’t change for me!. You know how I feel, we were good but you became someone I couldn’t love. Does this spell the end or is their hope. After I received the text I phoned her and left a voicemail short and sweet apology for the hurt. I sincerely want her back.

Reply Posted July 27, 2009

in reply to Admin

I started a rigorous diet and work-out program after the seperation. I’ve lost over 5 pounds so far around my waist…(I was already in good shape…I’m just trying to get that cut look) I’ve also enrolled back in school to persue a degree to become a therapist. And I’m picking up more hours at my job. Basically I’m pulling myself together.

And she’s big on MySpace (I know…) so I wrote a nice little blog just giving an update on my life. It didn’t mention or hint at her at all – it was completely positive.

We had been planning a trip to Myrtle Beach in August and I just threw in a quick word about that – saying that I was planning to go to Myrtle Beach before I start school in August with a friend or 2. That was it. It shouldn’t be obvious or offensive or make her think I brought it up deliberately cuz of her.

I know she’ll read it eventually. Day 3 and I haven’t contacted her.

Hope I’m going in the right direction!

Reply Posted July 06, 2009

in reply to myguinea Take a look at something, seriously – my friend T Dub will be able to help with this situation.

I could go on for hours about what you should do but it won’t be easy, take a look at this and you will get more help than I can offer you…

I wish you all the best with this because I know how much this hurts and how it fries your brain trying to work it all out.

Here is T Dub’s website – http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up

This guy will be able to help you to get your ex girlfriend back.

Reply Posted July 06, 2009

in reply to Admin

Truth is I couldn’t handle being friends at 1st. I became jealous over other guys and I kept talking about “us” even though she insisted we not talk about that and just let things ride. So I got the “I need space” text from her a few days ago and I haven’t contacted her for 2 days. I did see her in public though with another guy and possibly a girl. Could be nothing. I know she was sorta talking to a guy after we broke up and then he blew her off and it got to her. I didn’t get it. I was right there trying to love her and some random guy blew her off and HE got to her more than I.

What should I do when I hear from her? Play hardball and wait before I respond? I wanna make the right moves.

Is it worth noting that I called her once (it was important) after the “space” text and she answered? She was with some guy friends too (just friends). She also acted jealous over me initially after the breakup, although she covered it better than me.

Reply Posted July 05, 2009

in reply to myguinea Ok this sounds a lot worse than it is, really!

First of all, you are (where) still friends after the breakup, this is always good.

My suggestion for you is quite simple…

Start dating her again.

I don’t mean from where you left off, I mean start fresh as two people who know each other.

You already know her likes and dislikes, you already know that she has doubts. By starting over, you can show her that you are ready for the commitment.

Reply Posted July 05, 2009

in reply to vandoo626 Hi, I can see why this is confusing you, she is giving you mixed signals – but this really is how a lot of womens minds work.

First of all she could be regretting the break up and trying to figure out how to get you back without seeming as though she was in the wrong.

Secondly, she may actually be genuine and want you as a friend.

She may be as confused as you are right now – it’s not uncommon for a woman to make a decision and then wonder why she did it.

I think a little apart time may be in order, you don’t need to avoid her calls or text messages but just make out that you are really busy and keep things short but nice.

Once she has had a few days of this she may start to open up and talk to you more, it really sounds to me as though things may not be as bad as you first thought.

Good Luck

Reply Posted July 05, 2009

My and my ex were engaged. Then I started having doubts about marriage. I got selfish and started worrying about my dreams and how settling down would affect them. She worried that I couldn’t make up my mind. It doesn’t help that I previously backed out of the engagement.

Being on seperate pages led to a lot of tension between us. We stopped appreciating each other and argued over stupid things. We mutually broke up on June 8th agreeing to be friends. The truth is that I’m the type of guy that can’t fully appreciate something without losing it. I’ve dealt with my commitment issues and I want her back – for the right reasons.

We left it open to reunite but she confessed to her mom she doesn’t know how we’ll ever make it work. I got mixed signals. She left items at my house on purpose. She would tell me she’s not seeing any guys or having sex. She’d spend nights at my house (no sex). I smothered her and now we aren’t talking. I could try making her jealous or ignoring her. Advice?

Reply Posted July 04, 2009

in reply to Admin
Okay so she invited me to a baseball game tonight and shes touching me and stuff but in most cases like its just too crowed so my legs and arm is bumping into kinda way. everythings going ok but she notices that i kinda dont want to be there and i notice the same about her and as soon as i get back to her house from the game i leave for my house after we say goodbye. when i get home about an hour later i text her and ask why did you invite me to tis game because its not making anysence to me. she says “cause your my friend (my name) i also want to spend time with you. then i asked her who she asked before me. all she could come with was ” sarah’s away and i couldnt ask my friends in time”. i really dont understand what all of this means. she seems like she waned to more than friends again but then again i dont know whats on her mind. please can i have some advice? And thank you for the first responce!

Reply Posted July 03, 2009

in reply to vandoo626 Well, firstly you have 2 weeks to get things into gear…

For your circumstances you may want to check out my friend’s website – T Dub has become an expert in this type of situation. There is no point in trying to read things into what she said until you take a look at – http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up

Take your time and read through everything he’s written and get it right the first time

I really wish you the best of luck because it sounds like things were going so well, you never know! it may be easier than you think to get her back.

Here it is again – http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up

Reply Posted July 03, 2009

Iv been going out with this girl for about 3 months and then she decideds to go away to florida with her family for 2 weeks and tells me that she wants to break up because she just doesn’t love or have the same feelings for me anymore. She was in love with me, showed no signs that she wanted to break up till a day before she brought it up. she simply said she doesn’t have those feelings for me and love me in that kind of way anymore. Although she said she wished she could still love me like she used to but can’t lie to herself anymore. I still love her and need an opinion.

Reply Posted July 02, 2009

in reply to bapexsubcrew Hi, Did she say that she doesn’t love you to your face or was it about you to someone else? women sometimes try to play down situations so that they don’t show their true emotions…

Is this the end? Well…Maybe yes maybe no…

But! no situation is unrecoverable, I have heard from guys who had an affair who are now back together with their ex girlfriends and the same thing happened to them, she said that she didn’t love them and even that she hated them – and now they’re back together.

Please! don’t give up until you have taken the time to talk to her about it, you NEED to know how she truly feels, and she NEEDS to know how YOU truly feel…

Don’t hassle her but let her know

Reply Posted July 01, 2009

Great Site! Well put together and the information is concise and helpful!

Reply Posted June 27, 2009

in reply to Admin yup i heard her saying that she don’t love me at all. Does this mean its the end of us?

Reply Posted June 27, 2009

in reply to bapexsubcrew That’s the $64,000 question my friend…

If you are not compatible, maybe you are the one who is in love and not her – sorry to be blunt but that’s one of the curve balls which life throws us from time to time.

It’s happened to many guys before you and will happen to many guys after you BUT! until hear her say it (and mean it) there is always hope…

On this occasion I would probably recommend getting in touch with your ex girlfriend sooner rather than later for a chat. Make the meeting somewhere public so that she feels less cornered, you could even tell her to bring a friend (this also shows maturity and understanding for her)

Discuss what went wrong very calmly and objectively, if she says that you are a jerk or insults you – DON’T start shouting or playing the blame game or she will be out of there so fast that your head will spin.

Ask her what she wants and try to keep a conversation going. be understanding and sorry if you need to be (1000 words)

Reply Posted June 26, 2009

in reply to Admin If its really not compatible, can it be help? Cause i can’t afford to lose her from my life.

Reply Posted June 26, 2009

in reply to bapexsubcrew Hi, I suppose the first thing you need to do is to take a step back and think about the things you argue about…

Many times in a relationship we find ourselves arguing over the most trivial matters through boredom and insecurity – who started the arguments? If it was your ex girlfriend, maybe she was looking for a way out but she was looking for a good enough reason to end it.

If it was you, were you being to dominating? were you being too needy?

Or, was it down to the simple fact that you weren’t compatible?

There are a lot of things which you don’t know about her and a lot she doesn’t know about you…

Take a look at this

http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/1000-Questions

You will find a lot of answers to the questions you should be asking

Hope this helps

Reply Posted June 23, 2009

I’ve just been dump by my gf. Been with her for 3 months and i found out that i can’t live without her. Although its merely only 3 months, i really feel that she’s the one for me. I need her back very badly. The main reason we broke up is because she told me that we are totally from a different world and we keep quarreling. Can anyone give me some suggestions to help me win her back?

Reply Posted June 23, 2009

in reply to cubs12776 Now this one, I have seen all too often…

Guy meets girl, tries to play hard to get, acts like the quiet type, not looking to get serious – then when they get dumped they fall to pieces (no offense meant)

People used to say “treat her mean – keep her keen” this is a crock…

If you treat her right she will stay with you, if you play hard ball, she will find someone else.

The problem you have here is that you have to decide whether you want her back for good or you just didn’t like being dumped.

If you want her back, you need to change and you need to show her that you have changed and are ready for a grown up relationship.

Women will NOT stay with a guy if they think that there is no future – show her that she has a future with the new you!

But don’t go begging her back and telling her you’ve changed, if you meet in the street you should – ran out of space (sorry dude) copy this and read it all http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/

Reply Posted June 22, 2009

in reply to Elvis78 There’s always a chance and women are very forgiving if you are sincere…

the lies do add up don’t they? before long you get a real wake up call when you get caught, it’s never a good idea to lie to a girlfriend.

Desperation seems to have crept in here Elvis and it sounds like you’re on the verge of rushing in head first without a plan – STOP!

No Plan – No Girlfriend

It may seem that things are getting desperate but has she really had time to miss you? If you’ve been talking, meeting and calling etc: she really hasn’t started to miss you.

I know how this feels and I can’t express how much help I received from one guy. I can tell you that if you slow down, you will be better prepared in the long run and if you keep pushing you’ll only push her away.

Take a look at this – http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up

Reply Posted June 22, 2009

in reply to Goonz26 Wow! it sounds to me like you are definitely head over heals for this girlfriend…
The insecurity in quite normal, the last thing you want is for your girlfriend to be tempted away, but you still need to give her her own space.

The Lying has got to stop, it’s never good for any reason in a relationship.

How do you get your ex girlfriends attention? Well at the moment she probably thinks that you’ve let her down so you have your work cut out for you! but it’s not impossible.

I know I keep saying this but you need to go back to how you used to be when she met you – be “That Guy”

Give her some space, stop harassing her calling her etc:

When you do see her in the street, be nice, be a man, be considerate – there is more to this but I have a limited space to reply, click the link under the picture if you want the best advice around.

Good luck

Reply Posted June 22, 2009

hi, ive been dating a girl for about 15 months. its been a long distance thing, and we have had a pattern of about 3 months without seeing eachother. and id visit her for 2 weeks. but last summer i moved there for 4 months.

because its long distance, theres going to be issues that are not there when we are living close. missing them more, feeling the need to talk every second, anyways. because of the long distance, when im back and away from her, i worry too much. i do stupid things like make a fake myspace account to see if she would flirt and do something to hurt me.. (big mistake) she caught me, and i lied about it… i also seem to be more controlling. which is never good. especially being far away. well its come now to us hardly talking. she has been dating another guy for about a month. whats the best way to get her attention back. i want to be the guy she fell for. how can i get her to see that side of me again after all my mistakes? id even move closer to be with her.

Reply Posted June 20, 2009

Hello,
Great site and i would like to express my issue! I broke up with mygirlfriend of 8months over basically her being jealous,fighting,and her insecurety. I have now realized what a cruel mistake i have been, and now she refrains from coming back to me. I have been caught in little lies(which always add up). She feels now that she cannot trust me and is very upset with my actions. We have had good and bad conversations in the past 7 weeks as of today. I want her back and to keep in my life forver. She tells me that she needs her space to heal her broker heart that i have caused. I have been pushy as in buying flowers,gifts, etc.. I am afraid of losing her an never having the chance to show her that i can change an make this relationship the real deal. I am trying not to contact her,but thats the hardest part to deal with..I don’ want to act desperate and weak, but i am running out of options..I love her dearly and what her back in my life. Is there any chance? Please help! Elvis

Reply Posted June 19, 2009

Basically I met this girl and we started hanging out & we were intimate multiple times but we never labeled ourselves as “dating.” She told me “I would make a bad bf,’” “I was too old for her,” & “my friends told me to stay away from you” etc. So I never got too serious with it. I even said that i wasn’t wanting to date either (which wasn’t true at all but i wasn’t going to put it out there after all the signals i got-who would?). Then it stopped after 8 months (3 mo. ago). I asked her why & she said because she wasn’t going to waste time on me if i wasn’t going to date her!! We both wanted to date the whole time but just weren’t as honest as we could’ve been. no lying other than that. So i tried to step it up & fix it bshe didn’t want to. She met a guy on the web 2 wks later who lives 50 mi. away & started calling him her bf right away. Then she moved into a house 1 block away from me!! I want her back but i’m not sure what to do. HELP! 1000 characters isn’t enuff for full details

Reply Posted June 18, 2009

in reply to sparkz1
The best advice I can give you right now is to read this – http://www.squidoopeople.com/recommends/Making-Up

There is only so much that I can write here and I wouldn’t have the space for everything you need to do.

Don’t worry though, it is NOT a hopeless situation.

Reply Posted June 09, 2009

Nice job!! 5*

Reply Posted June 08, 2009

i broke up with my ex officially in january! we agreed to be friends and she started looking to date but since then the relationship didnt change,the only thing that changed was the amount of sex we had. mabe five or six occasions since the break up!

but then a few weeks ago i went to visit her (we lived in diferent city’s in england) and had to be admited to hospital for a week due to migraines,blackouts and no feeling in my legs.anyway the doctors told me not to travel because the problems stemmed from my back so i needed to lie down for two to three days then go see him. my ex girlfriend on the otherhand had to go to my city to work for the day so she said that i wouldnt be able to crash there.i explained that the doctor said not to travel,but she wasnt hearing it! eventually we had a big arguement which involved me saying things i didnt mean and disrespecting her.since that agruement she has not spoken to me and has deleted me from her facebook.can i get her back?

Reply Posted June 06, 2009

in reply to pizzlemynizzle Wow! Long distance relationships are tough, you pointed out the right things though. And yes! most long distance relationships fail due to the lack of intimacy.

3 months is a long time for her to not have talked to you, I would find out the reasons for this (discreetly) if it was down to you being too demanding, the last thing she wants is a long distance stalker (no offense meant)

The problem is that – if you are demanding from a distance, she probably felt a little claustrophobic when you were near her. It’s an unfortunate trait but some people get a little over bearing when they need affection, this can scare their partner away.

I think you both need to sit down and discuss the who thing, make it somewhere that she can just leave if she’s had enough.

You can discuss why she broke it off at the end of the meeting, once you know what she wants. Remember, you can force her to love you.

Reply Posted May 28, 2009

in reply to chriswjp21 You seem to have the right idea, you also know when you come across as needy or desperate which is a good thing.

Turning up at her work may not be such a good idea without finding out a little more detail of what she’s looking for.

You say that she complains about her new guy to her friends, without getting too involved you need to find out what he does wrong which you know you do right.

Is this new guy just a rebound relationship (sounds like) so that she has someone to spend time with.

One thing you could do is look back and think about how long the gaps are between you two seeing each other in passing, calls etc: you may find that there is a pattern – for example – she might not be able to go for more than a week without seeing you. In which case it might be an idea to make yourself unavailable for 10 days…

Let me know what happens – Good Luck

Reply Posted May 28, 2009

I like how this is put together. Good work, great information!

Reply Posted May 27, 2009

Person whose ex won’t speak to him,just give her time. The true opposite of love is indifference, not hate

I have a problem of my own. I’ve been with a girl for roughly 2 years. In January she stopped talking to me till April, when she said she’s been seeing someone else because I was too dependent. We’re on good terms right now, I try to be strong and let her talk to me first, and she still seems to enjoy my company, even though earlier today i kind of let my emotions take over and said I still have feelings for her, but I don’t think this is a fatal mistake.

Seems like a good chance right? Well…problem is…it’s a long distance relationship and I think maybe dependency wasn’t the only issue. Maybe she just wanted someone she could be with physically. I’ve been wanting to turn it into a real thing for awhile, but i just feel hopeless because of this. I told myself I won’t give up, but right now there’s a lingering doubt in the back of my mind. Am I just wasting time with this ?

Reply Posted May 27, 2009

Well short and sweet, We dated 1 year and a few months, then she met another guy, shes been with him for months. She complains alot about him towards her friends.
I called her and we had a decent conversation, i ended it asap acting like i had more important things were going on, problem is i showed weakness at the tail end and she wasnt liking it much, of course i can turn that around, not impossible, neither is winning her back.
Truthfully im holding out on everyone because im working towards my dream career, so i told her i wouldnt be planning on dating anyone, i told her “it doesnt mean i wont” weakness again!,,,,damn!
I know i can make things happen,
Ill go the distance only as one who is in love, not a needy desparate man, problem is i think somehow i come off as one, so the gym sounds good, then maybe a small appearance at her work after a lil while of no contact, with nice apparel, and a few words to charm her pants off.
Any suggestions?
(note) shes the tom boy type

Reply Posted May 27, 2009

in reply to Mike Hi Mike,

Sounds to me like you need to sit down and talk. I don’t mean about the relationship though. You made a big mistake here, you turned this around to be about you instead of being her soul mate and finding out what the problems at home were.

If you’d been together for a year, I’m sure that she would have confided in you if you’d asked.

Now the problem is that she still has the problems at home and her boyfriend (you) dumped her when she was desperate for your help and love…

There are some big apologies needed here and you need to be her friend right now rather than her boyfriend – that will happen soon enough.

Don’t try pushing her back into the relationship, take it slow and find out how you can help her. She needs to trust you again, she probably thinks that you can’t be trusted under pressure.

I hope this helps

Reply Posted May 22, 2009

Okay me and my girlfriend were together for a year and suddenly she became distant so I got worried and became pushy. She told me she was going through a lot at home and she just needed time but, I wanted to know what was going on. So to make a long story short I got upset told her it was over then 2days later sent about 8 texts saying I made a mistake then we got into an argument and she said it was over. She said it was too much pressure to be in a relationship. She said I was too pushy now I am hurt and feel alone. I know I can get her back but, I am scared that I may not be able too because she was sooooooo pissed.

Reply Posted May 21, 2009

in reply to mr d Mr D,

That’s great news, I really hope things work out the way that you want them to…

Keep in touch and let me know how it all works out

The best of luck to you my friend

Reply Posted May 09, 2009

thanks for the advice my friend i appreciate it very much she just texted me today after not hearing from her for 2 days then i get a text asking how i and am i ok ?

Reply Posted May 09, 2009

in reply to Tony Tony, I don’t think you’ll find the answer to this in any book. Religion is your beliefs, you can’t change what someone believes in and you should never try to change someones faith.

Realistically, if she loved you (I mean truly loved you) she would never ask you to choose between her and your beliefs.

Reply Posted May 08, 2009

in reply to ray You need to work out why it ended and work forwards from that point – too many people beat themselves up about the past. Move forward

Reply Posted May 08, 2009

in reply to mr d The reason she comes around all the time may not be to rub your face in your mistake. There is a strong possibility that after 3 years together she cares very deeply for you.

Love is a strange thing at the best of times, she really is most likely checking in on you to see if you’re ok!

If you’re serious about getting her back, the next time she comes around try talking to her as a friend rather than pushing her away. You need to start from the beginning again rather than where you left off.

Reply Posted May 08, 2009

i just got dumped by my girl been with her just under 3 years shes been dating someone else for over a week now and i am in so much pain i can sleep or eat or think straight i told her i was fine with it and im happy for her but she keeps coming to my house for like 5 minute visits i told her not to come over anymore that im moving on and i broke all ties with her but she keeps coming over everyday for like 5 minutes is she just using me or scared to let go as im not sure what do i do??? as i said i told her not to come down anymore as much as that hurt to say to her but she came over the very next day .it was my fault we broke up in the first place i didnt show her the love and attention i should have we were so good together once and now im paying the ultimate price i should have listened to her i guess i will try anything to win her back but no idea if she will ever come back to me

Reply Posted May 07, 2009

i have just broken up with my girlfreind and i really want her back, how do i start this process??

Reply Posted May 07, 2009

I have a question can this information you have help me too even though I know exactly what my girlfriend wants and the reason she broke up, because of me not converting to her religion and I do not want too..

Reply Posted May 05, 2009

in reply to jimb1234 You’d be amazed at how many people have said this…

Reply Posted May 03, 2009

in reply to Alex Hi Alex, great question…

Absolutely YES! it doesn’t matter if you were dating for 3 days or 3 years, the information will help you to get her back. It also sounds like you have a good advantage over many other people because you’re still friends.

BUT! – think long and hard before trying to get her back. If you are GOOD friends now the last thing you want to do is to ruin that relationship.

In many cases it’s a lot harder to find a good friendship than it is to find another girlfriend.

But as I said, this information will help you…

Good luck with whichever route you take, and feel free to let me know how it goes, I always like to hear success stories

Reply Posted May 03, 2009

i needed this information 6 months ago. great site.

Reply Posted May 01, 2009

I was wondering if this only applies to people who have been in long term relationship cuz I was thinking about going back out with a girl who I dated for 3 weeks. We are good friends now, but I still have a thing for her. Will your advice Help? anyways I find your article inspiring. It kinda gives me hope.

Reply Posted May 01, 2009

boy i wish i had this info earlier.

Reply Posted April 16, 2009

Awesome Site! I have left 5 well-deserved stars for you.
I hope you help many people reclaim their lost love and keep it.;)

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Reply Posted April 08, 2009

Absolutely fantastic – I have read so much bad information about getting an ex girlfriend back and this is by far the best info that I have read.

If someone can’t get their ex back after taking your advice then all I can say is that they must have done something so bad to get dumped in the first place, they are beyond forgiveness.

Keep up the great work and thanks a million

Reply Posted April 07, 2009

Really nice site

Reply Posted April 07, 2009

It’s guy’s like you that really do give people like me hope…

I have been trying to get my ex girlfriend back for what seems like forever. Now I know that giving her some space will help my case.

I’m pretty sure that you’re information will help a lot of people so I just want to say – keep up the great work and thanks for the information

Reply Posted April 06, 2009

I have been trying to win back my girlfriend for some time now and have just realized that I’ve been going about it all wrong. This site has given me some of the best information that I have read – it’s awesome.

Thank you so much

Reply Posted April 06, 2009

Great site. Thanks

Reply Posted March 30, 2009

I know first hand the pain of being heart broken as well as knowing the beauty of getting her back… great job helping others find happiness in relationships

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Reply Posted March 25, 2009

Winning back you girlfriend means putting desperation and panic emotions aside and maintaining your cool. That’s hard I know but the chances of getting her back increase enormously. You are right on the mark with this information.

Reply Posted March 24, 2009

What a God-send ! This is exactly what I require as my girlfriend and I aren’t realy on speaking terms, except for the ocassional text message here and there. Thanx !!!

Reply Posted March 24, 2009

This is a very helpful site giving information from a man’s perspective. You don’t get too many of those so kudos to you for providing this site.

Reply Posted March 21, 2009

Too many guys try to force the issue or jump back into a relationship like a “bull at a gate” but this will surely back fire. Your advice is spot on and should be heeded. Thinking first and keeping a cool head makes so much sense.

Reply Posted March 16, 2009

This site gives good practical advice for men that want to win us back! I like personal story since it confirms that sometimes when two people go through a break up it may make the relationship stronger when they get back together. Especially when they realized what was lost.

Reply Posted March 16, 2009

I could have used this information a few years ago! Breaking up can be so painful, but if she is worth it, you should do whatever it takes to get her back.

Reply Posted March 15, 2009

I remember many years ago my girlfriend ended our relationship. After a while I decided to do what I did the first weeks, because I really loved this girl. And guess what; she came back and we lived happy together for years. Thanks for taking up this serious theme in this great site.

Reply Posted March 13, 2009

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Reply Posted March 11, 2009

really nice site!

thanks!

Reply Posted March 11, 2009

Very informative. I will know where to go to get my ex back… for sure

Reply Posted March 07, 2009

Many people really want to get their ex back. And they will do anything to accomplish this. Good info

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Reply Posted February 27, 2009

This is the site for folks that want to patch back. It is a very “nice” site in a way, I think this is also doing part for society, so that less people would be upset. Great site

Reply Posted February 25, 2009

Thanks for the great site! I will recommend this to my friends who want to get back with their ex..^^

Reply Posted February 24, 2009

in reply to Winning-Ex-Back Well said – there are so many people who actually think that trying to contact your ex girlfriend or boyfriend all the time will force them into taking you back – this is completely wrong. You need to give them space so that they have had time to realize that they miss you too

Reply Posted January 27, 2009

Getting back together with your ex back is possible, but you’ve got to be relaxed and give it time. That’s why spending time away from her (or him) is important because it gives you both time to get away the drama and see the relationship in a different light. Sometimes it will look better and sometimes worse from a distance. The key is make sure you…..

Reply Posted December 17, 2008

nice site, break ups are very hard to deal with. Dude the best thing is to meet on common ground. I found that their is less tension between both parties, no demands to be met. try communicating through a friend, one of hers. Sometimes third parties can illustrate what you want without creating more tension.

Reply Posted December 05, 2008

Very nice, great, informative site…

Keep it up!!

Reply Posted November 17, 2008

Enjoyed reading your site – good common sense guidelines and tips to follow. Breaking up is a really emotionanl time and it helps a lot to have ideas on how to approach a breakup. Thanks for sharing. You’re invited to visit my blog for tips about How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back.

Reply Posted September 22, 2008

my girlfriend left me two weeks ago I’m crushed I tried to get her back but without any success she doesn’t want to see or to speak with me there are lots of blogs on the subject How to get girlfriend back but I still cannot make her to speak with me any suggestions?

Reply Posted August 21, 2008

The key to a better relationship is UNDERSTANDING and with that, further nurturing. That’s what I really believe in.

Anyways, indeed you’ve provided a brilliant source of information where I really learned more than what I’ve published a little while ago about how to get your ex back topic.

Worth reading…

Reply Posted August 13, 2008

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Reply Posted August 09, 2008

Nice site with an encouraging vibe

Reply Posted May 29, 2008

Will this work to get more than one girlfriend back? Thanks for the info, great site Admin!

Reply Posted May 20, 2008

Great Site. Good advice and food for thought.

Reply Posted May 03, 2008

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Reply Posted February 25, 2008

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Reply Posted February 18, 2008

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Reply Posted February 13, 2008

Cool power!

Reply Posted February 12, 2008

Maybe she just needs a little more time and space. If there was a spark there once, chances are it’s probably still there somewhere. What was it that she liked about you in the first place? Go back to the beginning.

Reply Posted December 10, 2007