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Many girls dump their boyfriends and don’t give any real reason or motive for their actions. They get the “urge to purge” and drop their partner without him doing anything

to her. Sometimes they want to get back together right away, but other times, they move on leaving you to hold the bag. This post will discuss how to get over your ex

girl.

First of all, you should understand that you are not alone, you’re not the first and you won’t be the last to get dumped. Most men are more scared being dumped by a

serious lover than being rejected in the early stages of dating. This is because the bonds men form with the women they are dating are important to them. Sometimes it

seems that the men see them as more important than women do, despite the fact that everywhere you look, advice is aimed at women in relationships.

To get over your ex girl, you need to stop adoring her, as much as you love her and as much as it hurts right now. Don’t put her up on a pedestal like some kind of Greek

Goddess. She has feet of clay which she exposed by dumping you when you did nothing wrong, the sooner you realize this the better your life will be.

Don’t linger on those past memories of her. Put away the photos and momentos in your home that remind you of her, don’t throw them away just in case you do get back

together in the future. If you have some of her “stuff” give it back to her.

If you have shared finances, sort them out so you can move on. This includes both joint banking accounts and settling debts you owe each other. One thing which is sure to make things go on and on, is if you have financial disputes with your ex girlfriend.

Don’t allow her to invade your mind, remembering when you were together. She is part of the past and you have to live in the present and the future. Read a book, watch TV, go out with friends, do what ever it takes to clear her out of your head.

Close out all contact with your ex. Don’t call her “just to chat” or get into idle conversation, or allow her to continue to email or text you. Instead, tell her that she called it quits and you want to start a new life without her in it so she should move on and let you do the same.

This may make her want to pursue you even harder. Women are crazy that way. They push and try harder for the things in life which they can’t have. If you are open to restarting the relationship, you can allow this communication to go on – But! make sure that everything is on YOUR terms. But, if you want to start the healing process, she needs to be cut out of your life completely and as quickly as possible.

Don’t be afraid to express your feelings, anyone who tells you any differently has never been through a breakup with someone they were in love with. Sometimes writing in a journal or writing music is sufficient. Other times, you’ll need a shoulder to lean on. If the situation is severe, consider getting short term counseling, there is nothing embarrassing about this and it may help you to get over things quickly.

Finally, don’t sit around the house alone, feeling sorry for yourself. Get back into the game. While you may not be ready to start dating again, you should go to the gym, play basketball with your buddies and go to a bar from time to time. Don’t stick around the house because you are too sad to go out.

If you have the opportunity to go out on a casual date, take advantage of it. Show the girl a good time, even if you’re not really that in to her, but remember to leave your ex out of all conversations (and your head). You will be more ready for a real relationship if you’ve kept up your dating skills.

That is how to get over your ex girl.