There’s no arguing the fact that women are dramatic. They often say or do things that they really don’t mean. In fact three quarters of the break ups are initiated by women. But, more often than not they
don’t really “mean” to break up. They are just being their normal drama queen selves. But, if you react badly to a breakup, you may lose your girlfriend forever. So, here’s how to get ex girlfriend back.
First of all, give her some space. If you don’t call her, she will probably call you. Let’s face it, if you disappear off the grid, she’s probably going to wonder why.
Give her a chance to learn what life without you is really like, if you’ve been together for a while she’s probably forgotten what it’s like to be alone. She may not like staying in at the weekends. She may
miss cuddling up on the sofa – or more.
By maintaining phone silence, you are also letting her know that you can live without her which will confuse her andmake her think about you more often. She has to decide whether she wants you, because you
are prepared to move on.
This is an important tactic in the how to get ex girlfriend back strategy because you are probably beside yourself right now, wanting to make up with her. Still, you must stick to the program.
Don’t make any dramatic gestures of your own. Don’t send great big bunches of flowers. Don’t send her a long love letter. And, don’t stand under her window and sing! ( I know this happens, I still have the
email from a guy who did just that).
If she hasn’t called you after a week or so, you need to initiate contact. If you lived together, take a look around and see if she left anything behind, you can use this as an excuse for contacting her.
Email her and casually ask how things are going, before dropping into conversation about the item(s) she left behind. Try to keep things unemotional. You want to appear to be pursuing a “just friends”
strategy.
If this isn’t enough, you may need to take it up a notch. You can send her a text message, write on her facebook wall, or call her about once a week. Occasionally show up somewhere she hangs out, this works
best if it’s somewhere that you both used to go and you still have friends that go there. But don’t harrass her. Be prepared to talk to other people, but don’t put on a show doing it.
Make sure that you remember the important dates in her life. You should always send a card or small gift on her birthday so she knows you are thinking about her on her special day. If you have a meaningful
anniversary, you might want to drop her a note telling her what it means to you. But keep it short and sweet.
If she hasn’t made any effort or hasn’t indicated that she’s ready to get back together with you after a month or so, you may have to start thinking about the rest of your life. If you’ve learned that you can live without her, you may just want to look for a new girlfriend.
But if you still want to know how to get ex girlfriend back, you can step things up.
For instance, ask one of her friends out and then call her and ask her what kind of restaurant you should take the friend to on the date – this should only be done if you are on speaking terms as friends, otherwise this will look like you are just calling to rub her nose in the breakup. If you are on speaking terms, this will get her thinking about whether she is ready to really let you go.
At this point, you may have just given her the gentle push that she needed. She may say that she wants you back on whatever terms you set.
Most importantly, you should never “stalk” your ex girlfriend. Think of the song “I’ll Be Watching You” as a guide of things NOT to do. Being relaxed and casual about the future of your relationship is
your best bet. She’s not going to come back to you once she sees you being pushed into a police car…
And, that’s how to get ex girlfriend back.
Get Ex Girlfriend Back
Hi, my name is Brian
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
ur useless!!!
ur useless!!!
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
dude none of this …
dude none of this will ever work
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
guys ok im a girl …
guys ok im a girl and i have 2 say something about this vid. if u wana know how 2 get back witha girl dont ask a guy ask a GIRL i mean for lord sake im not tryin 2 b mean or anything, but if she didnt like where things were going the person 2 go 2 is not a guy but a girl who would know how the girl feels about the whole thing. but the trick is finding a trustworthy girl to talk to.
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
i agree with this …
i agree with this but in a way he did her a favor.
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
llol thats funny …
llol thats funny and mean at the same time
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
no i didnt lie i …
no i didnt lie i proved to my girlfriend that the older guy was cheating player scum in a way i saved her then one her back
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
wow…you PURPOSELY …
wow…you PURPOSELY hurt her feelings and lied to her to get your way. Sounds like true love to me. Hope she reads this and leaves you for good.
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
bloody idiot…
bloody idiot…
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
lol once after me …
lol once after me and my girl broke up she started dating this older guy so then i got his email made a email of this hot girl named kate had a bunch of fake HOT GILR photos and basicly made him cheat on my ex girl and i saved the convo sent it to my ex girl she dumped him and i got her back true story
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
yeah man same thing …
yeah man same thing happened to me, she left me for some loser 3 days after we broke up and I moved out.
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
I FEEL YOU GUYS TOO …
I FEEL YOU GUYS TOO, IT SUCKS
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
i have the same …
i have the same guitar as u
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
how much hope is …
how much hope is there if you lived with her and she kicked you in the same day not being that concerned about where you’re going to go?
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
and WIN her love… …
and WIN her love…
~Love is not a victory march it’s a cold and it’s a broken Hallelujah~
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
i feel you man
i feel you man
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
you are a fumbling …
you are a fumbling idiot
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
dude i need help …
dude i need help she calls me imture and childish idk what to do. ive been crying over her!! help me man.
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
it worked she was …
it worked she was back in 3 three weeks!!! do what this man says IT WILL WORK!
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
you and me both
you and me both
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
me two it sucks …
me two it sucks i hate it i cant sleep
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
i feel like …
i feel like this moment
nothing feels good at this time…NOTHING
(she was the one…DAM)
sorry for the bad English i had a lot of drinks
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
umm if you want …
umm if you want some help… well… i can help you.. well.. just forget about him about a year and try make a return trip back to her
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
nooo… don’t my gf …
nooo… don’t my gf told me and she said that can get her mad at you even more
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
soooo…
all i …
soooo…
all i have to do is karate chop
her in the neck??
so not cool hah j.k
November 11th, 2009 12:41 pm
same thing happened …
same thing happened here man…me and my ex were together for 5 years and things were going wrong and she broke up with me and i accepted it…she went on vacation came back and wanted me back but i couldnt at the time…now 9 months later my feelings for her came back but she has somebody who she tells me she “might” but she tells me she doesnt know the future…maybe we can get back maybe not!!!i dont know what to do…i feel sort of depressed but i dont know what i really should do!!!